The idea of giving a pet as a present may seem appealing, but it reveals a crucial misunderstanding of the nature of the human-animal relationship, which is often at the root of people surrendering their pets after the festivities. That's why today I'd like to tackle the subject of the human-dog relationship and explain how its quality is fundamental to the well-being and fulfilment of animals (and our own!).
What does it mean to have a pet? Quite simply, it means that because a pet is not an object, like a telephone or even a green plant, but a companion, we build a two-way emotional bond with it. With a quality relationship, based on trust and attachment, and generally forged through play activities, regular care and moments of tenderness, we establish a solid foundation that will facilitate the educational process.
Indeed, a dog that associates its owner with positive experiences such as play and bonding times will develop increased trust towards their owner. As a result, dogs will be generally easier to socialise and train, reducing the risk of developing behavioural problems - the main cause of euthanasia and surrenders.
On the other hand, when the animal is seen as an object, to be given on special occasions, the emotional two-way connection may not be established. The animal's emotional and psychological needs will not be met, increasing the risk of behavioural problems and ultimately leading to the decision to abandon or even euthanise the animal.
The quality of the relationship with our dog influences not only his behaviour, but also our own conduct and decision-making process. The more difficult our dog is to manage, the less patient we will be and the more likely we are to send out contradictory signals that will make the situation worse. This creates a real vicious circle that can only be broken by deciding to separate from the animal or by realising the importance of improving the quality of the relationship. This last stage is crucial if effective behavioural therapy is to be put in place.
That's why dog professionals insist that adopting a pet is a serious decision that requires responsibility, thought and a thorough understanding of the long-term implications. If you're not sure you're fully ready to commit yourself to building a quality relationship with your pet, but still want to support animals over the festive period, consider volunteering at a local shelter instead.
In conclusion, if you have any questions or doubts about how to improve your relationship with your pet, don't hesitate to consult a dog trainer. In some cases, even with the right social and antisocial environment, an animal can display problematic behaviour, which may indicate the presence of a psychiatric disorder. If this is the case for you, consult your vet so that he can refer you to a vet specialising in behaviour who can make a clear diagnosis.
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